As I considered this beautiful thing called Love,
And how people are quick to say, "I Love You",
Without knowing what it means, or what being in love would involve,
I am inspired to share my thoughts on this subject with you,
So, I ask; What's Love?
Is it lust or "lost", is it infatuation, passion, deception, or may be titillation,
Is it a mere feeling, or an inner excitement, sentiment, a carnal embodiment or a sexual embellishment,
Is it a one night stand, "a forever stand", a short term stand or an entirely impossible realization,
Is it only a fairy tale, fading fantasies, unrealistic day dreams or an ephemeral excitement,
What really is this Love?
Is it true, real, godly, divine, heavenly and sent only from above,
Well, after much cogitation, after much meditation, and after much contemplation,
I am awakened and enlightened as to what this Love really is and to its true description,
For once, it is not lust neither is it "lost", it is far from infatuation even if it may start as infatuation,
It could be a true passion, but it is certainly not deception for it doesn't wear a camouflage, and it is not an instant titillation,
It is not a one night stand, no, not at all, it is certainly a "forever stand", for it lasts forever if it is real and true, And in a misinformed and ignorant world like ours, this Love is still a possible realization-this too, is true,
Love is not a fairy tale, it is not a fading fantasy or an unrealistic day dream or an ephemeral excitement,
But this Love is true, it is real, it is godly, it is divine, it is heavenly and is sure from above-this is not a fallacious inducement,
To make you accept this concept, but a beacon to lead you along love's true path,
For true love is selfless, sacrificing, it is giving, it is considerate, it would die for its own, and remains even on a difficult path,
Need I say more? True love is not selfish, it is not proud, it doesn't hurt its own, it is always there and ever present, it is all these but lust, and infatuation-it doesn't lead on a deceptive and destructive path...
So, the next time, you feel like saying, "I Love You", be sure you understand what you are saying and mean it.
N/B: What's your thought on love, let me know as we draw closer to this Valentine's day...
Copyright Lysious 2011
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Monday, January 17, 2011
ALL SHE WANTS...
I hear brothers sometimes, complaining about how their ladies are too demanding,
They talk about how they demand gifts, jewelries, attention and even pampering,
So some brothers these days no longer pay attention to their ladies,
They don't pay attention to their needs and feelings, and even when they buy gifts, it's so they can get a taste of their bodies,
So, there is no longer sacrifice or compromise in a relationship these days, neither is there true love,
What a Shame!
But as I contemplated on this scenario, a thought struck me,
And a realization was awakened within me,
It's a thought and a realization which I find to be true with every woman no matter her likes, dislikes or preferences;
That sometimes, all the woman wants is a simple compliment, that tells her how beautiful she is,
Sometimes all she wants is a simple "I love you", telling her how appreciated she is,
Sometimes all she needs is a long passionate kiss on her lips, telling her how loved she is,
Sometimes all she desires is a tight hug and a close hold, through the night, telling her how comforting and satisfying her warmth is,
Seriously, sometimes that is all she needs, instead of always demanding for sex and whining about how demanding she is; think less of yourself and more of her for once, and see how wonderfully that would work for your union,
When was the last time you called her, "honey",
When was the last time you laughed at her jokes even though they were not funny,
When was the last time you bought her something special when she didn't ask for it, or it wasn't her birthday,
When was the last time you served her break fast in bed and wished her a blessed and fruitful day,
Really, when?
When was the last time you really listened as she talked about how her day has been,
When was the last time you looked her in the eyes, told her you loved her, and even called her your queen,
When was the last time you rubbed down her stress as you massaged her, while running the bath for her,
Brothers, a woman needs to be appreciated, made to feel loved and told how much she is worth,
She needs a man who is ready to "buy" and preserve her love no matter how much the cost,
Really, sometimes it is not the money, not the flash or the cash, the glitz and glamor that she needs,
It is just a man who thinks more of her and less of himself-that brothers, is all she needs.
They talk about how they demand gifts, jewelries, attention and even pampering,
So some brothers these days no longer pay attention to their ladies,
They don't pay attention to their needs and feelings, and even when they buy gifts, it's so they can get a taste of their bodies,
So, there is no longer sacrifice or compromise in a relationship these days, neither is there true love,
What a Shame!
But as I contemplated on this scenario, a thought struck me,
And a realization was awakened within me,
It's a thought and a realization which I find to be true with every woman no matter her likes, dislikes or preferences;
That sometimes, all the woman wants is a simple compliment, that tells her how beautiful she is,
Sometimes all she wants is a simple "I love you", telling her how appreciated she is,
Sometimes all she needs is a long passionate kiss on her lips, telling her how loved she is,
Sometimes all she desires is a tight hug and a close hold, through the night, telling her how comforting and satisfying her warmth is,
Seriously, sometimes that is all she needs, instead of always demanding for sex and whining about how demanding she is; think less of yourself and more of her for once, and see how wonderfully that would work for your union,
When was the last time you called her, "honey",
When was the last time you laughed at her jokes even though they were not funny,
When was the last time you bought her something special when she didn't ask for it, or it wasn't her birthday,
When was the last time you served her break fast in bed and wished her a blessed and fruitful day,
Really, when?
When was the last time you really listened as she talked about how her day has been,
When was the last time you looked her in the eyes, told her you loved her, and even called her your queen,
When was the last time you rubbed down her stress as you massaged her, while running the bath for her,
Brothers, a woman needs to be appreciated, made to feel loved and told how much she is worth,
She needs a man who is ready to "buy" and preserve her love no matter how much the cost,
Really, sometimes it is not the money, not the flash or the cash, the glitz and glamor that she needs,
It is just a man who thinks more of her and less of himself-that brothers, is all she needs.
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